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Paraphila is an umbrella term used to cover the family of philias. In sexology, it is sometimes more widely used to cover atypical sexual interests or deviances. While the word paraphilia may seem alien, the philias it encompasses may seem slightly familiar. Think fetishes and unusual desires and you're on the right track!

Thursday, 15 March 2007

Sticky Situations

While the thought of being bound up and being at the every whim and mercy of a teasing lover may send the female pulse racing, being trapped and left immobile by a precarious real-world situation leaves most women anxious and panic-stricken. Anger and worry mingle with tears as they struggle - helplessly waiting for a knight in shining armour comes to their rescue.

However, be wary of that knight riding towards you, ladies, for he may be a stuck-fetishist in disguise! For these pseudo-knights, seeing a woman (or man) immobilised by a sticky situation - whether it be glued to a chair, sinking in quicksand or bound to another person - has a tendency to leave them a sticky mess.

Private Yahoo groups like Sticky Situations allows those with an interest in both seeing people get stuck and being stuck themselves the opportunity to express their thoughts and share their interests.

Sticky Site offers specialised entertainment for members by covering variations of the stuck theme including those who prefer: cement, tight spaces, chains, captures and encasement. While the site has an active forum, it also has a great deal of links to this sticky community and showcases members' artworks in the gallery and their fiction in an archive as well.

Researching this area, I have to admit that one variety of the fetish intrigued me more than others - particularly as it's blossoming with the help of the internet. From the land of NASCAR we have a niche which combines the joys of stockings, heels and cranking with the all-man horsepower of cars....oh, and mud - lots of mud!

Sites such as Stuck World allow insight into the thrills of women in cars wheel-spinning mud and snow. Frequented mainly by men, the message boards are active with links to stuck scenes in the media, as well as 'finds' on blogs such as Ryann the Stripper's last week. Poor Ryann had a tough time getting her car up the hill in the snow last week and now she appears to have become the fixation for the Stuck World online community as well. Over the last few days, she's been inundated with messages from members about her 'stuck experience' both via her blog and via her My Space account. Yes, they even tracked her down there - to say I was concerned was an understatement!

Among the car stuck community, there is a great deal of discussion about the 'perfect' stuck as well as personal interests and needs. It would appear that the fantasy for members isn't necessarily duplicated in reality so there is a great deal of frustration.

A member, calling himself Broadsword20048 explains: "All I want is to see a nice attractive women get stuck in some mud or snow in a rear-wheel drive vehicle. She doesn't have to be wearing high heels or pumps and a skirt or anything, just be attractive and be stuck like that, but there's always something wrong, like the woman isn't that great-looking.... or she is driving a front-wheel drive vehicle, or the vehicle is stuck and rear-wheel drive but is a MAN (UGH!), I wanna see that perfect stuck!!"

Well, perhaps he should look no further than to sites like Car Stuck Girls which offers a range of dvds catering specifically to this fetish. But, I am struck by the feeling that while these dvds offer up exactly what's desired, the element of having a great 'find' and the surprise of stumbling across an arousing situation is lost.

It seems the greater and more specific the fantasy, the more disappointment there is to be found in reality - which leaves many with internet access heading for the porn sites for their 'fix'. However, as humans, we are born stubborn and determined and we won't let reality step in our way. It seems that whether we're into sticky kinky action or vanilla, we won't stop yearning for our own 'perfect stuck'.

P.S.While some may argue that this isn't necessarily a fetish or paraphilia, in my opinion it definitely falls into the category of unusual sexual interest. All of our boundaries are pushed at times - and my blog is no exception. So - what do you think? Comment and let me know!

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